So Dan and I are getting a little impatient. It's been a month and a half since the last time we were picked and even though we've only been selected twice, the timeframe between them was about a month. I keep hoping that today is the day we get the call....We're still waiting.....
Well, as I was looking through some other adoption bogs I came across this video. It is so completely moving and oh so TRUE to most of the feelings I have been through or are going through.
**Warning: If you chose to watch this video, please do so with a box of tissues**
Well, we just received our 4th status update (for the month of Dec) and we are still getting a good amount of interest so...YAY!!
Here's our status update: 12/2 - Amber: hasn't chosen a family; 12/2 - Erin: hasn't chosen a family; 12/2 - Diane: hasn't chosen a family; 12/3 - Elaine: hasn't chosen a family; 12/14 - Leonore: "has fallen off the radar"; 12/30 - Stacey: matched with a family
Although we are bummed that we are still waiting, I keep reminding myself (along with my mother, Miss Vicki) that it will happen when the universe deems it right....Miss Vicki has been a great sounding board through this experience. I love the way her face (and my dad's face) lights up when they talk about my adoption story....they were out of town and "back then" there were no cell phones so they were out of touch, finally they were reached and overjoyed. My parents tell me that adoption was so different back then....they got to see me right after I was born and then had to WAIT THREE MONTHS until I could come home to them...talk about learning the value of patience...LOL!! Well, as mom and dad remind me of my adoption story, I look at Dan and I and think....WE CAN DO THIS!!
I know I say it in about every post I post BUT....THANK YOU so much for being so supportive in our journey to our family!!
August, 2000 ~Started dating =0) August 25th, 2007 ~ Married
May 2008 ~ Unofficially trying to conceive August 2008 ~ Officially trying to conceive January 2009 ~ Started clomid
July 2009 ~ Fertility Specialist consult
August 2009 ~ Started infertility injections
January 2010 ~ Ectopic pregnancy that ruptured, emergency surgery to remove left fallopian tube.
Feburary 2010 ~ Started to research adoption choices
April 19, 2010 ~ Signed contract with AdoptHelp Law Firm August 9, 2010 ~ Finished creating Birthmother letter September 9th, 2010 ~Letters and remaining paperwork printed and mailed to AdoptHelp October 8th, 2010 ~PICKED - situation ended up not right for us October 11th, 2010 ~Sumitted appilcation for the Home Study to A New Beginning November 5th, 2010 ~PICKED - situation ended up not right for us December 19th, 2010 ~Home Study visit with A New Beginning case worker December 3rd, 2010 ~PICKED - situation ended up not matching all parties involved criteria February 16th ~Ordered 15 more profiles to be printed April 2011 ~Home Study APPROVED April 20th, 2011 ~MATCHED and we ACCEPTED the situation May 1st, 2011 ~Our baby was BORN May 4th, 2011 ~TPR signed by both birth parents May 5th, 2011 ~ICPC was APPROVED May 6th, 2011 ~We brought our baby home!! WELCOME HOME SWEET BABY OLIVIA!!